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When to buy your dream Wedding Dress? Your to-go shopping timeline

You’re newly engaged, and you’re excited…to go gown shopping! While your wedding date (if you’ve even set one yet) may seem like it’s ages away, an important planning point to ponder on is when to buy your wedding dress before you walk down the aisle. Because made-to-order wedding dresses typically take about 6-9 months to create, it’s actually a good idea to head to the bridal shop sooner rather than later. Aside from the fact that it may take you some time to find the One, you’ll need to perfectly time your three (yes, three!) fittings, allowing for custom alterations, aaaand then some more custom alterations (your well-tailored dream dress isn’t made overnight, mind).

After You Get Engaged

It’s safe to assume you’ve had a rotation of dream wedding dresses saved to your wedding Pinterest board long before your partner popped the question. If you don’t already have a vision of your ideal gown, though, now’s the time to do your homework. Start by ripping pages out of bridal magazines, scoping out top trends, pinpointing your favorite designers, or gaining inspiration from real brides. Then, make note of commonalities within your favorite finds: Do open backs continue to catch your eye?

Embellishments? Lace? Fitted silhouettes? Whatever the theme, hold onto it and bring visuals for your first bridal salon appointment. Ultimately, though, maintain an open mind—you may fall in love with something that was never even on your radar.

After You Pick Your Venue

Go gown shopping only after you’ve pegged your dream wedding venue, which makes sense considering you want to wear something that stays true to the locale’s vibe (a beach ceremony and elaborate ball gown may not bode well). You should also have your wedding dress budget finalised by this point (including alteration fees), as well as selected the lucky ladies (or gents!) you’d like to accompany you on such a high-stakes shopping trip.

Stay on track by booking appointments well in advance, since spots at bridal boutiques fill up unbelievably quickly. Do your research, too—look into each salon’s designer selection, price point, and which sample sizes they carry to make sure it’s the right fit for your gown allowance and vision. And, as far as bridal sizing goes, don’t let the number on the tag get to your head. Because most bridal designers use a scale that runs on the small side (a size 10 wedding dress translates to a true size 6/8), you’ll end up purchasing a garment that’s about two sizes larger than your usual. With this in mind, feel comfortable shopping for picks in your actual bridal size, no matter how massive and panic-inducing it may seem.

At each salon appointment, you’ll be working with a consultant and trying on sample gowns. From there, once you’ve said “yes” to the dress that makes you feel most beautiful and bridal, the frock will then be made-to-order just for you.

9 Months Before the Wedding

Narrow down your final dress of choice at a bridal salon, pinpoint any desired customisations, pay a deposit of 50 to 60 percent, and allot 6-9 months for the bespoke creation to come in. Why, exactly, does the process take so long, you may ask? Your perfect dress will be produced to your measurements, and some components may be sourced from across the globe.

As for your gown’s final completion date (cue cheers!), alternations and all, factor any pre-wedding photo sessions and travel time into the overall shopping schedule.

5 Months Before the Wedding

While you wait (and wait…and wait) for your lovely gown to come to fruition, cross a few things off your wedding checklist in the meantime. For starters, have a tailor lined up, which your bridal salon will likely either provide in-house or point you in the direction of a reputable couturier. Some seamstresses may charge per service (i.e. hemming, taking in the bust, etc.), while others may request a flat fee for the overall alterations, so budget accordingly. Next, let’s talk accessories—it’s a good rule of thumb to have your veil, jewelry, and other adornments picked out before your first fitting to get an early glimpse of the full look. Wedding shoes are a must, as well, to determine your gown’s hem length. For footwear, find kicks that complement your dress and stay on par with the wedding vibe.

3 Months Before the Wedding

Ta-da, your patience has finally been rewarded! The dress should be finished and at the salon. Just in case it’s not, you have a bit of wiggle room before the first fitting.

6 to 8 Weeks Before the Wedding

First-fitting time! Make minor tweaks (change neckline, trim train, etc.), and consider bringing a bridesmaid or two along to demonstrate how to bustle the gown. Hold off on buying your bridal undergarments until after this point to gauge the best foundation for your specific situation. Also, keep your weight stable from here on out, but don’t panic if yours fluctuates. You still have 1-2 more fittings to either take in or let out the gown for the perfect fit.

4 Weeks Before the Wedding

Undergo the second fitting. By now, most of the heavy lifting should be out of the way, so you’ll have a much better visual of how the dress will look. If you haven’t already, choose the final headpiece, veil, and accessories. Come armed with your lingerie, as well.

2 Weeks Before the Wedding

Some dresses only require two fittings, but a third, final round of alterations may be necessary. The gown should be almost flawless. Try on your entire wedding ensemble—veil, shoes, and all—and prepare for a sappy (even tearful!) first full look.

1 Week Before the Wedding

It’s officially crunch time: By this point, you’ll pick up your finished gown and pay the remaining balance, including alteration fees. The salon or tailor will send you home with a protective garment bag, so keep the precious cargo safely stored until the big day (and out of view from nosy fiancés).

The Big Day

Showtime! Before walking down the aisle, unpack the gown, hang it up to air out, then steam away any wrinkles for the finishing, picture-perfect touch.